How Decluttering Konmari-style Changed My Life

Decluttering Konmari-style with The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up

Your home should be your sacred space. It is the place that you come back to, time and time again, as your family dances back and forth between school, work, friends, family, errands, and activities. It is the base from which you depart, then return to to unwind, reorganize, (hopefully) play and relax, before you prepare to set out again on life’s adventures. When I realized coming back to my home didn’t feel the way I wanted, decluttering helped me renew that love for my home, and my life.
copy-of-knit-bear-hat-1

Feeling a sense of overwhelming dismay at the disorder running rampant through my home, the book The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up
by Marie Kondo could not have appeared and pulled me in to read it at a better time (that’s an Amazon affiliate link, fyi). At the end of last summer, I poured through the pages, gleaning new ways of thinking and being. By the end, I felt that I had the tools and motivations I desperately needed to clean up my act, and to simplify my life.

Now that it has been over a year since starting my own Konmari journey of decluttering, I feel I’ve come a long way from the mess I was before. Don’t get me wrong, my house is still messy. I still have too much, and I’m still searching to find the ways in which I can feel more organized in my home and my mind. However, even though I still have some categories of belongings to complete decluttering (and did not complete the challenge within the suggested 6-month time frame) there are many ways in which I can see and feel the benefits of embarking on this project. In order to help me better see the changes and motivate myself to continue on (and perhaps help to motivate others to start their own journeys), I wanted to take a few minutes to share the benefits I’ve noticed.

The benefits of decluttering your home and life Konmari-style with The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up

Benefits of Decluttering Konmari-style

Less is more

Reading The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up helped me make the mental shift towards realizing that not all of the things I hold on to are necessary in my life. This motivated me to remove all the excess, in order to experience the peace that comes with owning, keeping track of, and seeing fewer things filling every corner of our home.

decluttering konmari life-changing
Going through each collection of items made me realize the extent of the excess cluttering my life. Honestly, who needs this much sea glass and shells? Decluttering all this (and more) left me with a beautiful loose parts collection for Z to explore.

Open, clear, uncluttered space is beautiful! Having less makes it so much easier to keep everything where it goes, and to notice when something is out of place. (Although, with a toddler around, it’s not exactly the epitome of tidy that I dream of one day experiencing.) Having less also helps us to see when something is not being used, and perhaps is no longer needed. We have more physical space and mental clarity to really make use of what we do want in our lives, and to remove all the excess.

Defining your goals

The first step in the Konmari method of decluttering is to clearly and specificaly visualize how you want your life to be. What do you want to spend your time doing? What kind of hobbies and activities do you want to participate in? From here, you can see what kind of decor and possessions will aid the kind of life you want to lead, and which do not fit into your desires. If you don’t yet know what it is that makes you happy and how you want your life to be, you can’t really go about making that life, can you?

decluttering konmari declutter
Focusing on what I need or not in my life helped clear the excess to fully realize our goal of a new, functional kitchen. It has been an amazing change in our lives.

While it was not mentioned in Kondo’s book, I took some time to make a vision board to help me think through what I wanted my life to look like. (Although, I find I’m now constantly revisiting what kind of life I want, and how I can alter my surroundings to pursue that.)

Realizing Preferences

There were a lot of things about myself that I didn’t know I didn’t know until I started going through my items. Piece by piece, I went through each category of items to decide what “sparks joy”, and what doesn’t quite fit that bill. I realized there were different patterns of tastes in clothing and materials that made me particularly happy and comfortable wearing them. I also discovered that I had been continuously acquiring items that I didn’t truly want, but tried to make fit in my life because they were gifts, or they were items I had purchased and felt I should make use of. (You might want to check out my posts about decluttering my closet, and decluttering kids’ clothes.)

decluttering konmari lifechanging magic of tidying up
My wardrobe and accessories have been greatly reduced, allowing me to form a more concrete understanding of my own style preferences.

By setting aside distractions and looking at each item on it’s own, I was able to see those patterns of preference. Now, when I’m shopping or offering suggestions to others about what I might like, it seems much simpler to come home with items that truly spark joy in me. This is much preferred to coming home over and over again with items that looked great on the rack, but don’t really suit myself and my own unique style. Hooray for saving time, saving money, and never having to wear something you don’t feel amazing in!

Saying No

I’m a rescuer and a hoarder. You don’t want that old broken, useless thing? Let me take it off your hands. I’m sure I can use it somehow…

decluttering konmari the life-changing magic of tidying up
Kitchen wares had been one of my major weaknesses in accumulating more than I need, just because I could. No more!

That used to be me. Now, I feel much more confident saying no to items I really don’t want or need when someone offers them. Being that I have a clearer knowledge of what exactly I do own (with less to ponder and more connection to the things I have chose to keep), I am far more able to keep in mind what I have and what I need. If I am offered or am considering buying something that I already have and enjoy at my home, it’s much easier to definitively say “No, thank you. I don’t need it.”

Letting Go

There are two types of items that I have always had the most difficulty parting with. Things that have been given to me as gifts, and mementos that remind me of times and people who are very special to me. Again, reading The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up helped to retrain my brain in consideration of these items. Finally, I feel more able to let go of, not only the possessions, but of certain feelings and thoughts that surround these sentimental items.

decluttering konmari life-changing magic of tidying up
This is just a very small portion of what I have decluttered and removed from my home over the past year. So freeing!

For a more detailed look at how The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up (affiliate link again) has helped me learn to let go of gifts and sentimental items, stay tuned. I plan to publish it in the next week, and when I do I will link it here.

 

Do you have anything to add or comment on? Leave me a comment in the section below, or connect with me on Facebook or Twitter. (You can also find me on Instagram and Pinterest.)

If you liked what you read, why not sign up for my short and sweet weekly e-notification of what’s new on the blog. (This way you won’t miss the next post on letting go, either.) Click here to add your name to my email list.

Disclosure: I have included Amazon affiliate links within this post, to the book this was all about. If you purchase anything through these links, I will receive a small commission (not paid for by you), which helps to keep this blog up and running. You can view my full disclosure statement here.

3 thoughts on “How Decluttering Konmari-style Changed My Life

  1. Lizzie Lau

    I loathe clutter, but I’ve always kept a couple of rubbermade containers full of stuff in my parents’ barn loft. I’m glad I didn’t allow the stuff to clutter my day to day life, but it has been a treasure trove of memories and a lot of fun to dig through a couple of times a year with my daughter. Most recently my sister and I bought my Dad a turntable for Father’s Day, and I was able to pull out my small collection of children’s records that I’ve had since I was 4, and share them with V.

    Reply
    1. Hannah Post author

      Those memory bits are so special! I’m definitely hanging on to my fair share. It would be kind of nice to see everything from my childhood again, but it’s all been lost in moves. It’s not really a big deal, though. That’s the nice part. Even memory stuff is just stuff. (Though I’m glad you still have your treasure bins! How awesome!)

      Reply
  2. Pingback: Palm Springs: How To Do A Ladies' Trip in 3 Days

What's it look like from where you're sitting? Leave me a comment.