With Father’s Day quickly approaching, I thought it would be fitting to dedicate a post entirely to the amazing men (like my darling hubby) that take fatherhood, give it a twist of their own personality and skills, and balance out the feminine with their own version of masculinity. These Dads are teaching out children just as much as the mothers, and offer different views and skill sets that don’t often come from the mothers.
For instance, my darling daughter, at her young 18-months of age, has developed a strong interest in beer and hockey. Those two words are even included in her small repertoire of spoken language. Thanks Dad. I guess she truly is your child, and will never be doubted for her Canadian status.
Beyond the slightly less than desirable (to myself as a mama, anyhow) teachings, fathers tend to have a different way of being with their children that actually brings about more independence and self-help skills. While many of us mothers can easily understand what our little ones need, and tend to quickly jump to their aid (I try my best to give little Z space to struggle, but it’s not easy), fathers generally tend to be more hands-off and allow their little ones the space and encouragement to do more for themselves.
So thank you to wonderful fathers, for everything that you do to raise our children to be capable, gentle, independent, bright, humorous, thoughtful and strong individuals. Your love and care is noticed, and you are appreciated by so many, within your families and outside of them.
In honour of your efforts and struggles, I have put together a bunch of my favourite recent tweets on #dadlife (similar to this post on #momproblems tweets). Enjoy!
Every day I draw a picture on my kid’s lunch napkin & archive it for her on Tumblr http://t.co/B3BfTdAaYo #dadlife pic.twitter.com/0o4zDsuvTR
— Jarrett J. Krosoczka (@StudioJJK) June 12, 2015
Today I discovered that the best kind of dancing is of the hopscotch variety. #dadlife pic.twitter.com/sQXOFkSlR3
— Travis Hay (@guerrillacandy) June 7, 2015
Sometimes you just need to take a break from work to have a toddler dance party. #dadlife
— Nicolas Ward (@UltraNurd) June 3, 2015
Being attacked by Donatello and Michelangelo…why did I think giving kids a boe and nunchucks was a good idea #DadLife
— djjazzpants (@djjazzpants) June 16, 2015
You Can Be A Strong Dad And A Kind Dad At The Same Time (@BulletPointDad) http://t.co/Tc0BPpNcV7 #dadlife
— caseyross (@caseyross) June 3, 2015
“daddy why you wearing socks with sandals?” “Just what dads do.” #DadLife
— Mike Mackneer (@mmackneer) June 2, 2015
I’ve become the neighbor that walks around their yard wearing underwear and shoes. #dadlife
— allan branch (@allanbranch) June 5, 2015
My four year old was just screaming for me to find her new “hooker shirt”!! Lmao anchor honey anchor #Dadlife #Kids pic.twitter.com/HleYH5dTOI
— MikeAngelo311 (@Monroegrow) June 2, 2015
Though my son was saying “I love you” over and over this am. Turns out he was saying “I love food”. #Fatherhood #dadlife #BroDadLife
— Todd Shapiro (@t_shaps) June 2, 2015
7am on a Sunday. Time to play Barbie dad! #dadlife https://t.co/nQJjX8l6iX
— Paul Rj Muller (@caffination) June 7, 2015
Oh my god. She let me put her hair in a pony tail. #toddler #dadlife
— Chuck Litzner (@cflitzner) June 6, 2015
My girls on the way to the pool…yes…they are wearing princess towels! #cutestthingsever #dadlife pic.twitter.com/2tpKAY3ixn
— Alan Powell (@alanpowell10) June 6, 2015
When @tjpoon is out tearing up the left flank, we hang out at home baking brownies. #DadLife pic.twitter.com/LWpOejNB3h
— Jason Poon (@jasonhpoon) June 6, 2015
Feverish baby found one position in which she could relax last night: face down, using my throat as a forehead rest. #DadLife
— Chris Ashworth (@Chris_Ashworth) June 6, 2015
Nothing like having a stuffed animal sheep shoved into your face with your toddler screaming “baa baa!” at 6:30 in the morning. #dadlife
— Andrew Seaman (@amseaman) June 6, 2015
Up for hours at night is worth it when she’s learning to smile. #dadlife https://t.co/cEKTRwcm2q
— Dave Preece (@dnpreece) June 4, 2015
Potty training … haven’t cheered for a poop this much since they closed the local Old Country Buffet #brodadlife #DadLife
— Max Lederman (@Max_Lederman) June 16, 2015
Current dadlife status: it’s 4:30 AM and I’m covered in toddler vomit.
— Ian Brown (@igb) June 16, 2015
You have NOT lived life to the fullest until you change a poop filled swim diaper in the front seat of your car. #dadlife #iwin #glamorous
— Paul Kevetter (@pkevetter) June 6, 2015
.@CamelBak Podium bottles are really good for spraying baby puke out of a car seat while on a road trip. #dadlife
— Phillip Ball (@pgball) June 5, 2015
If your child pees on the floor don’t put newspaper over it like Big Daddy. I repeat don’t do that… Wifey will be pissed #dadgang #dadlife
— Jason Clow (@lookingforclow) June 2, 2015
The extent to which I’m happy because my toddler finally peed in a plastic, Elmo-themed potty is… surprising. #DadLife
— Joshua Isard (@JoshuaIsard) June 7, 2015
Figuring out how to deal with this this morning. #mylilgrad #Dadlife http://t.co/cJE6f95Pkv pic.twitter.com/XPfsTe72FC
— Jay Cooney (@HalftimeJay) June 5, 2015
I said this before and will say again there is no greater joy in life than to watch your kids with pride @xodanix3 @TheMalia #dadlife
— Joe W M (@Bigjoem75) June 5, 2015
Happy Father’s Day, Dads! We’re proud of you, too!